Why some people just don't know how to mince their words? Or is it just becuz i'm already so annoyed with them that no matter what they say it just sounds so...tactless?

I don't know. But i know i should seriously stop taking their words so srsly from now on and accept the fact that sometimes ppl just like to say things “without going through their brains” (不经大脑）. And I should stop rebutting them. Waste my time and energy and it's not doing any good for my reputation. AND so that i don't have to waste even more time trying to write apology-cum-explanation letters to "save the day"-.-

These are times whereby u know who are the zeros.