Taken from http://intj-explained.tumblr.com/

Yes. My dad should really read this before he turns every peaceful discussion into a mindless argument to defend his stand. And...please stop using "u must look at the big picture" when all you're doing is straying away from the main topic. I really hate it when people bring up random points just because they can't think of anymore evidence to support their flawed arguments and they just refuse to admit. And the worst thing you can do is to carry out the "personal attack" tactic. Just admit it and move on. it's not like i'm gonna harp on your 'mistake' anyway. No one is perfect and sometimes ideas/opinions can't be simply marked as right or wrong. Don't call me defensive when all i'm trying to do is to understand your idea and test the validity of your argument. If you're not gonna be open minded about things, then don't come to me for a 'discussion'. One day, hopefully i'll be able to find someone who can actually reach the 'congratulations' part. lol. If only i can streamline people like this before they come discuss anything with me. So that they will know why i refuse to argue with them any further and not think i'm being arrogant, close-minded or rude.